Episode 20: Come Sh** Next to Me: Coprophilia & Homoeroticism

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Welcome to Episode 20 of F*ck Like a Woman. Today, my online dating connoisseur is back to tell about a couple of her more surprising encounters, namely a couple of suitors’ preferences for coprophilia (a sexual affinity for defecation, i.e. poop) and homoeroticism (a same-sex erotic attraction, but not necessarily acted upon).

These are 2 distinct topics we discuss, and therefore have nothing to do with each other in this context so they shouldn’t be equated together. This conversation is both comical (when we need some relief – no pun intended), and an honest conversation about some common sexual fears, fantasies, and cultural stigmas that deserve some examination and understanding.

These are some of the points that we cover on this episode:

  • When attempts to share one’s fantasy with a potential lover go wrong, very wrong
  • One of the less common types of anal fantasies: defecating on another person and/or being defecated upon
  • Acknowledging that one person’s fantasy can, and often is, another person’s aversion
  • The common stigma of male homoeroticism, which seems to be a double standard for many women who accept female sexual fluidity, but reject any inclination men may have for other men
  • We talk about why that may be, and how it’s linked to masculinity as a whole
  • We also touch on a few of the underlying emotions that sexual fantasies are thought to counteract and how deeply rooted those beliefs about ourselves run

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